A lot of "isekai" shows can be split into two major groups. One is the "wow I can become a vagrant and kill people!" shows, and the other is the "wow I can participate in society/retire!" shows. This list compiles the latter. Obviously there can be a lot of overlap; if the show has a bit of both, I've included them as well. Also, this isn't to say that one is better than the other; there are a lot of great shows that don't belong on this list. I've also added some tensei shows and regular fantasy shows that fit the theme. However, I haven't included shows I've dropped or haven't seen enough to say with certainty, so this is not a complete list. if you know of any I should add, or if you think I've made an error, please let me know (through profile comments or DM or whatever).
Examples of shows which do not belong on this list:
Mushoku Tensei
"I got a USELESS skill that's actually super OP in combat!"
Re:Zero
Sword Art Online
Examples of shows which do:
Nation-building slime
Food shows
"haha guys I became a merchant instead of an adventurer isn't that wacky?"
Log Horizon
"But what about [akuyaku reijou something]?"
Due to the large quantity of villainess otome-slop shows, I've dedicated another stack just for them: here
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